People told me it was a mistake for me to lose weight. I finally found out that I look 35+ at age 24 because of my weight loss...what should I do? Is it even worth losing more weight?
Today I confirmed that I have basically prematurely aged (professionally)--I've suffered a lot of fat loss to my face and I now appear very gaunt. A lot of people had told me that the weight loss was a mistake--implying strongly that I was looking worse. I thought it was the crab mentality at work. For a while now people have treated me worse post weight loss. Or said I looked like I was dying, or any number of other insults. Even suggestions that I look old. I heard this from a lot of people. Guys haven't gotten anymore interested in me, and I am treated like I'm older. I even noticed it in the mirror before anyone else did.
After a while things hurt. In my youth I was bullied for being fat, and I was very happy to have lost weight but I've come to realize that maybe it was a bad idea and I'm regretting my self-improvement. I hate feeling this way...I mean, I might be a bit healthier but I look even less healthy (people actually said that too).
The huge problem is...My waist is at 32, my hips at 37. I still have a lot of fat on my upper arms too--toning them wouldn't fix the issue, there's that much fat. Like, I could go down to 130 and normally would be healthy there. But I'm afraid.
I am 149 at 5"6
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