What do you do to love yourself even when you’re big?

I lost fiftyish pounds and put it back on again which has been devastating. I’m going to get back on it and keep trying hopefully but in the meantime I feel like I’m constantly putting my life on hold for ‘I’ll be confident when I’m skinny’, or ‘I’ll get nice clothes when I’m skinny’. I just absolutely hate myself at the moment. I also find it super hard to feel attractive and therefore good during sex. I’m worried it’ll impact on my relationship eventually because I just feel so negative.

I am not sure if this is the right sub for this post, but tbh you have always been the kindest sub and I figured there must be some people who have felt like this before.

Any tips team?

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