Has weight issues caused anyone else to be a ‘late bloomer’?
Hello everyone! I spend a bit of time on this sub, but decided to use a throwaway for this question in particular. Not sure my intentions of this post, just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation.
I’m a 22-year-old female. At my heaviest, I weighed ~230 pounds, and currently weigh about 160 pounds at 5’10”. Working on the last ~10 pounds or so, but done the bulk of it — these last 10 pounds may be the death of me.
Anyways. I was always the overweight kid. All through middle and high school. Boys never found me attractive, never had a boyfriend. My friend found me a date to prom... I just never had the confidence in myself.
This continued into college. I recently graduated, still never have had a boyfriend, my first kiss, or sex. It’s at the point where I am embarrassed to admit it.
I can see the changes in how people treat me. I get more attention from guys, interest in dating apps, etc but I don’t have the confidence to follow through with anything. I think part of this is an internal struggle, but another part is I can’t get over the fact that I am no longer obese.
Did any of you guys struggle with this? How have you guys conquered this?
Edit: thank you so much for all the responses, you beautiful souls ❤️
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